A
lot of people owe debts to Mark Zuckerberge, the facebook founder. I was one of
those millions people. One evening I was feeling bored as my office was off.
All my known friends were offline in facebook. Out of boredom I tried to chat
with a girl accumulating courage and motivation. Because unlike other guys, it
was not my cup of tea to chat with girls who were strangers to me. I didn’t
know that stranger girl would be my true love that I was destined to be with.
I
never believed that love was possible through facebook because ninety percent
of guys both girls and boys prove fake; show fake love and only try to flirt.
But I didn’t know there was something special in the store of my luck that
changed my entire mindset and belief. Now I could say a big ‘yes’.
Now
in this era anything can be possible; so did my relation with that stranger
girl. Initially I felt she would have boyfriend like other girls. But as a mark
of respect I never asked her about that. And she also didn’t ask me anything
like that. But still I was feeling
lonely and I shared different things with her. So did she with me. One evening
I went to a temple where I lit candle and had little meditation. And I wished
and questioned why I never find someone who has same amount of love as me. I
prayed for a change in my love life.
From
that evening onwards, we both used to chat with one another. I lighted her
emotion everytime she talked about her ordeals. Same thing she also did for me.
I went to that extent that whenever I opened the facebook, I wished to find her
online. Who knew she would also be wishing the same thing to me. On several
occasions I got offline out of depression and frustration when I didn’t find
her online. I prayed almighty before even getting online so that she would be
right there online. It’s been a couple of days later that we exchanged our
phone numbers.
The first call of course, I made. Initially I
thought for a second before calling her. I wondered what I would tell her.
Should there be any special things to tell her, or rather go easy. But never
did I feel nervous like other guys. I even had seen some guys who went pale
while interacting with girls for the first time. Within a moment I thought I must
appear normal and original as what I’m. Honestly, I had only seven rupees as
balance in my phone. The first time I heard her voice, it was so sweet that
even I would say honey was not even that sweeter as her voice was.
We
used to talk on regular basis particularly in night; talking with girlfriend
during nightime is something that gives extra excitement and happiness.
Sometimes talk seemed never ending and that last for six to seven hours. This
kind of tendency went for almost a month. She told me her exam was around the
corner and she was pursuing journalism, a good subject for me but seemed not
her cup of tea. She often asked me things related to her subject and whatever I
knew, I told her and explained things very clearly.
My first meeting
with her!
Meanwhile
her exam was round the corner; she recievd the email where her exam center was
given. Now she insisted me to come to the city of Kolkata. She reasoned me that
she couldn’t go to give her exam as center was too far. “Is she calling me for
her exam only or she has other idea?” I pondered, but yet I also equally wanted
to meet her as soon as possible.
And
going alone so far seemed unhealthy considering recent increased report of
attacks or assaults on women. She was stubborn I knew her from the very first
beginning of our relationship. I had also no option as I was doing some
freelance works for my clients. Again then I decided to cancel my work to head
for Kolkata and thought it was only a matter of few weeks; once her exam gets
over, I will return. It was the month of January Delhi was entirely under grip
of cold waves. Under no circumstances people take bath during winter in the
capital but I was the first one to enter into the bathroom to take bath.
People
truly say when people fall in love, they can easily be known by their
behavioral changes. I was no different and not an exception as well. I began to
dream different things; in each of my dreams she was right before me. Before my
departure I shopped few things; excitement, tension and numerous other things
flowed into my mind like gushing water. I wondered different things; one silly
incident of my friend got reminded to me; it was also the incident which was
too common to happen in this technology advanced world. How eager my friend was
to meet and continue relationship with the girl he talked but had never seen.
However, both of them discovered differences existing between them on their
first meeting. And they finally came to conclusion that none of them could ever
be sacrificed for one another.
Same
thing was exactly repeatedly coming to my mind. “Would she really accept me on
discovering my true personality at our first meet? Or would I have the same
feeling on meeting her?” Sometimes carrying this in my mind I laid on bed to
sleep but again I opened the eyes out of excitement and again it faded away
slowly thinking ‘what’ if she rejects me. Initially, I was quite unsure if I
would be able to make the trip. I was having very less amount of money and
traveling of course without enough money meant inviting unwanted trouble.




