Oh God ! You Listened Me....!!!

A lot of people owe debts to Mark Zuckerberge, the facebook founder. I was one of those millions people. One evening I was feeling bored as my office was off. All my known friends were offline in facebook. Out of boredom I tried to chat with a girl accumulating courage and motivation. Because unlike other guys, it was not my cup of tea to chat with girls who were strangers to me. I didn’t know that stranger girl would be my true love that I was destined to be with.

I never believed that love was possible through facebook because ninety percent of guys both girls and boys prove fake; show fake love and only try to flirt. But I didn’t know there was something special in the store of my luck that changed my entire mindset and belief. Now I could say a big ‘yes’.

Now in this era anything can be possible; so did my relation with that stranger girl. Initially I felt she would have boyfriend like other girls. But as a mark of respect I never asked her about that. And she also didn’t ask me anything like that.  But still I was feeling lonely and I shared different things with her. So did she with me. One evening I went to a temple where I lit candle and had little meditation. And I wished and questioned why I never find someone who has same amount of love as me. I prayed for a change in my love life.

From that evening onwards, we both used to chat with one another. I lighted her emotion everytime she talked about her ordeals. Same thing she also did for me. I went to that extent that whenever I opened the facebook, I wished to find her online. Who knew she would also be wishing the same thing to me. On several occasions I got offline out of depression and frustration when I didn’t find her online. I prayed almighty before even getting online so that she would be right there online. It’s been a couple of days later that we exchanged our phone numbers.

 The first call of course, I made. Initially I thought for a second before calling her. I wondered what I would tell her. Should there be any special things to tell her, or rather go easy. But never did I feel nervous like other guys. I even had seen some guys who went pale while interacting with girls for the first time. Within a moment I thought I must appear normal and original as what I’m. Honestly, I had only seven rupees as balance in my phone. The first time I heard her voice, it was so sweet that even I would say honey was not even that sweeter as her voice was.  

We used to talk on regular basis particularly in night; talking with girlfriend during nightime is something that gives extra excitement and happiness. Sometimes talk seemed never ending and that last for six to seven hours. This kind of tendency went for almost a month. She told me her exam was around the corner and she was pursuing journalism, a good subject for me but seemed not her cup of tea. She often asked me things related to her subject and whatever I knew, I told her and explained things very clearly.

My first meeting with her!

Meanwhile her exam was round the corner; she recievd the email where her exam center was given. Now she insisted me to come to the city of Kolkata. She reasoned me that she couldn’t go to give her exam as center was too far. “Is she calling me for her exam only or she has other idea?” I pondered, but yet I also equally wanted to meet her as soon as possible.

And going alone so far seemed unhealthy considering recent increased report of attacks or assaults on women. She was stubborn I knew her from the very first beginning of our relationship. I had also no option as I was doing some freelance works for my clients. Again then I decided to cancel my work to head for Kolkata and thought it was only a matter of few weeks; once her exam gets over, I will return. It was the month of January Delhi was entirely under grip of cold waves. Under no circumstances people take bath during winter in the capital but I was the first one to enter into the bathroom to take bath.

People truly say when people fall in love, they can easily be known by their behavioral changes. I was no different and not an exception as well. I began to dream different things; in each of my dreams she was right before me. Before my departure I shopped few things; excitement, tension and numerous other things flowed into my mind like gushing water. I wondered different things; one silly incident of my friend got reminded to me; it was also the incident which was too common to happen in this technology advanced world. How eager my friend was to meet and continue relationship with the girl he talked but had never seen. However, both of them discovered differences existing between them on their first meeting. And they finally came to conclusion that none of them could ever be sacrificed for one another.

Same thing was exactly repeatedly coming to my mind. “Would she really accept me on discovering my true personality at our first meet? Or would I have the same feeling on meeting her?” Sometimes carrying this in my mind I laid on bed to sleep but again I opened the eyes out of excitement and again it faded away slowly thinking ‘what’ if she rejects me. Initially, I was quite unsure if I would be able to make the trip. I was having very less amount of money and traveling of course without enough money meant inviting unwanted trouble.

MY GOLDEN COLLEGE DAYS

It was horrible night, the more I thought about her, the more frustrated I became. Nevertheless, my mind and my heart just said, “How bigger fool are you?” Fool, but for what? This could be the question you would be surely wondering. How stupid I’m, without telling you the obvious reason, I started describing my emotion.

Well, let’s go to a couple of years back; those were the days when I used to go to college. In a number of five hundreds college girls, my eyes went just for one, the only one whose every move made me feel sensation. I won’t tell you her physical figure but yes, she was the most down to earth lady that I ever met. I began acquiring more attraction and feelings towards her but the way she interacted with me, one can say there was definitely something between us.

I had a bad habit of spiting. Everytime I walked passing through garbage or unhygienic path, I spited. One day while passing through the market, I spited looking spiteful cow dung; she quickly came closer to me with authority and told me not to spite. I had nothing to tell her besides saying ‘sorry’. She never ever let anyone of us to throw biscuit packets or covers of chocolate anywhere near roadside. When we argue with her jokingly, she said, “Look, if you and me litter roads and continue to do so, others would also follow us and that would surely pollute the surrounding”.

She was very helpful as per me. I could say it because she came all way to help me when I needed it most. I was quite disorganized in class and notes that were given us to write by our lecturers I didn’t maintain properly. In such cases, she often snatched my notebooks and jotted down notes for me. Even during the time of admission she would always take care of me, asking me if I had any problems in submitting college fees. Once I had to borrow three thousands rupees which later on, I gave it back to her. It was not something that I didn’t help her too. I also crossed thousands miles when it came to helping her when she needed.

It was the time when we got deadlines of submitting the class projects. She suddenly fell sick and she asked all others except me for help. However, all those fellows were never in a position to help her. And why should they help her as she stood first in first year. I knew it but I didn’t tell anything to her. In fact she required photos and notes for the project. I thought it was the opportunity to help her and without thinking for a second, I planned to bring all those notes. Same things I exactly did as planned. It was a sight of joy for me to see her happy smile. So this was what I did for her.

Once college got over, those feelings also got over like the cold winter season. In the past five years, I had never been in a true relation. The only reason was my stupidity. And it was all my trust; I have a problem that whoever accepted me in a relationship I put everything on it. You can say total surrender. But, may be, it was my bad luck that whoever, entered into relation with me proved undeserving of me, considering the kind of tendencies and natures they exhibited.

Sometimes, I felt lonely; so lonely that I wished of someone in my life with whom I could share laughter, happiness and funs. Again deep inside of my heart a voice came out telling me things I thought were all illusion. There was never a concept like a ‘true love’. May be not for me; different kinds of thoughts cropped up in me. Whatever challenges, struggles and difficulties did I face; I couldn’t share them with anyone but with myself only.

The only option available to me to feel ease was chatting with my long lost friends in facebook. Every one of them had a good luck I should say. Because I believed it was not that easier to find good and reliable girls. May be all of them had shares of some luck that they could find girls whom they had been all doing well. What could I do, since half of their times of the day was spent chatting with their girlfriends. They hardly got time to give attention to their male friends. And I was one of their male friends.

HOW FACEBOOK HELPED ME TO EARN MY POCKET MONEY?

As I’m one of those laziest guys who always love to spend their valuable time on non-productive activities. Out of 24 hours, Facebook consumes my two-third amount of time and during that period I try to make my presence online and this social media site has all of sudden become my second home. Spending too much time on it has had a variety of negativity. It made me lose my sleep, often face arguments with my girlfriend who out of suspicion often comes out bursting and one day she really got the better of me.

In fact, how I started earning money using Facebook has an interesting story behind it. As I have been so much addicted into it, I have been continuing to use it and ignored the demand of my girlfriend who told me to help her in her works. When she got fired she started abusing me a lot of things and she even told me I should learn some of the money earning tricks through the usage of Facebook. After so much research online here are some of the following ways that I found helpful and through which I have been earning my pocket money.

I have a blog where I used to blog on different subjects that are interesting for most of the people and I have some specific targets. In this way I simply post links of the blog in Facebook which gets shared with all of my Facebook friends. And the more I receive visitors to my site the more beneficial for me as I used to get visitors to my blog through Facebook and hence the Google adsense is all providing me the value of my hard work.

Besides, what you can again do is you can publish your e-book online and then can sell it by promoting on Facebook that will be of immense way to earn. You can target more non-fiction because everybody needs information and hungry about having of so many ideas since the coming of globalization which brought out stiff competition in the areas of business, academics and any kind of profession as well.